Are you an angry black woman?

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My ladies we have all heard or even have been called an, “angry black” woman or even a in my case, a crazy black woman. And I going to be 100 with y’all I’m tired of the bullshit!

“Society continues to portray black women as angry when we show emotion and it prevents from being seem as vulnerable”-

Let me start off by saying, people in this world will label you, claim they know everything about you, and try to devalue you and your being. SIS  don’t let them. FUCK THEIR STEREOTYPE of us. 😀

Also people will hate on you even when all you give out is love. Just think about it people hated Jesus and all he wanted to was spread his message and love. Furthermore, think about the First Lady, Michelle Obama, the media wants to sell you the facade of her being an angry black…

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Are You Settling? Feeling Anxious?

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First, breath in sis, then breath out.

Now lets, begin.

At this moment in my life I am at the point where I have begun accepting my light, my talents, and loving myself un-apologetically. As a result I been losing and gaining quite a few friends. Sometimes I am strong and stand firm when faced with opposition.

However, my anxiety levels are at all time high. 😦 It’s midterm week a.k.a Midterm Madness week and this past Friday, I was doing well, and balancing my school and life schedule until it came time to spend time with my family.

And I didn’t say NO. I didn’t set my boundaries for them and caved and spent my weekend with them. So when Sunday afternoon/night rolls around and I have returned back to my campus and I’m chilling in my bed living  a stress free life until I feel a tug and…

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Yikes: Battling with addiction

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What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear this word?

SN:(tell me below I love comments guys!)

For me when I hear it I think of the most obvious form of an addiction, addiction to drugs like crack, weed, heroine etc. But I want to talk about the most opaque form of addiction.

Having an addiction to people like friends, lovers, and, best friends.

*disclaimer: I am by no means a pro nor expert on relationships, the following are things I have observed and experienced that I will like to share with you all peace and love y’all*

Take for instance in a relationship, many people unknowingly develop a natural but unhealthy( will explain later) dependency on this person or persons. I have watched a family member of mine have a three-year and counting relationship with her boyfriend, there is nothing these two haven’t…

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BLACK representation in the media✨ Why is it important? 

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Being born in the late 90’s, I watched on the television how black people were shown in positive light in t.v shows, movies, and even in the music industry. The effect of so many black people displayed on the t.v screens empowered a generation to dream of their own future and possibilities! Just to give you an idea of what this black representation looked like in the late 90’s here is a list of some really good shows and movies.

T.V Shows like:

  1. Martin
  2. Living Single
  3. A Different World 
  4. Girlfriends 
  5. Sister, Sister
  6. The Jamie Foxx Show 
  7. The Wayans Bros.
  8. Moesha (my personal fav!)
  9. The Bernie Mac Show Movies like:
  1. Hav Plenty (1997)
  2. Waiting to Exhale (1995)
  3. Higher Learning (1995)
  4. Poetic Justice (1993)
  5. Friday (1995)
  6. Boyz n the Hood (1991)

My lists can go on forever but you guys get the point! ☺️

⚡️Now let’s get down to the importance of…

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seasons change and so do your friends.

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Have you ever heard of the saying, some people are in your life for (a) season and some are in your life for a reason(s)?

Well if not then you just did! 🙂

I have no idea what springtime and summertime does to people. Around this time of year I have always have people in my life (for a lack of better words) will show they ass when spring hits. It’s like as if the sun coming out and the flowers and plants coming back to life after winter give these people a new attitude or better yet reveal the attitude they had held all along.

Currently in my life I am working hard for all the things I have prayed, and already my blessings are coming down (word to Chancelor 🙂 )

I have begun doing things that I could only dream and I’m more accepting of my light…

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